Planning The Best Bridesmaid’s Tea Ever

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A wedding is a huge event and you need other people to help you plan it. A bride relies on her bridesmaids to make sure that everything goes smoothly as planned. Therefore, it’s only right to host a bridesmaid’s tea to show appreciation for all the wedding preparation they’ve put up with. It’s also a nice way to do some last-minute bonding with your squad. Furthermore, this get-together is a great opportunity for the bride to give each maid her bridesmaid gift. Do you need help with event planning? Here are some vital things you need to know in planning the perfect bridesmaid tea:

Who To Invite

You don’t need to send invites to the maid of honor, bridesmaids, and the flower girl. Only do so if you’re planning a very formal event. Although, some brides would include mothers, grandmothers, and other female family members on the guest list too. Keep it intimate. Though you’re formally honoring your maids for their hard work, bear in mind that it’s also a bittersweet affair. Some would even consider a bridesmaid’s tea a fond farewell. 

 When to Have It

The bridesmaid’s tea is usually held a day or two before the wedding day. However, it can also be held during the wedding itself. This works well if your bridesmaids are coming from different places and can only stay for a few days. It’s also an excellent way to lessen the tension during the final stages. Sharing a wonderful meal is a great way to relax and unwind. Before deciding on a date and time, know what you can handle. If you feel you might be anxious on the wedding day itself, hosting the gathering on the same day is not recommended.


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Where to Host

Are your guests staying at the same hotel? The hotel dining room will offer a convenient and elegant setting. You can also choose a venue that has special significance for all of you: A favorite coffee shop or bistro? Parent’s country club? Grandmother’s basement? An outdoor venue such as a beach or a park is also a good option. If you happen to live in Morgantown, WV, then finding a perfect outdoor venue like The Lake Manor would be very easy for you.

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What’s the Style 

 Many brides prefer a traditional seated luncheon or tea. Think exquisite china and white table linens, guests in lovely dresses, and ladies groomed to perfection. Remember to keep the ambiance light and chill. The key is to make sure that everyone is still having a good time.

 What Food to Serve

 Are you hosting it on the afternoon of your wedding? Then it’s best to plan a light menu. Most of the attendees would probably be too nervous to eat, plus you don’t want everyone to feel bloated from all that rich food. Opt for traditional tea treats like mini pastries, fresh fruits, and finger sandwiches. You can also serve salads, bagels, and even sushi which can provide enough nourishment without being too heavy. If the bridesmaid’s tea is taking place days before the wedding, then offer your friends their favorite dishes. It’s all about enjoying this moment with the people you love.